I got my proof that he is talking to ow. He told her he knows what he wants and it's her. I secretly recorded him in his car. I needed to know. Now before I listened to this he was telling me how sick it makes him when guys are violent to women. And how he learned to respect people from a guy at work and how it bugs him how the temporary help is not treated well. All of this while he lies and cheats on his wife and disrespects her! And he still goes to church with me and listens to a preacher on CDs !
So I know it's over for me. I will talk to a lawyer. Anyone got any other advice?