Finally approaching the starting line!

[eyesopen]

Thanks GKM, it's always nice to hear from you. It seems like somehow she equates the appreciation to the financial aspects of the divorce agreement.

So it looks like a divorce would force me to face my fears for one, and then we would be over the hurdle and there would be nothing left to cause more resentment on her part.

When this began I was worried I wouldn't see the signs to know which path to take. I am at a point where I think that we are so far into this that a divorce is what is going to happen. Just being seperated hasn't given her the space she thought she needed, and I suppose I have somehow been pursuing enough that I haven't given her the space she needs. Or maybe I have detached enough and she still doesn't think it is enough. Either way I will be okay, and I will work harder than I ever have to make sure my children grow up to be strong, independent, well adjusted adults.