Thanks for the support! I am feeling good

Originally Posted By: tori2012
What is the status of the D process? Is your W orchestrating everything?

We've had our first early intervention conference and our mediation was planned the same time as our vaca so it's been delayed. I told W she had to reschedule and nothing yet. Besides filing she hasn't done anything that I know of besides talk with me once about custody. About a month ago she said we could start getting the house ready and dividing up stuff to get it ready for sale. I told her just let me know when you're ready and she hasn't brought it up or done anything. I'm acting as if I'm fine with D but I'm not doing anything to accelerate it or help it move forward. I told my lawyer to do what he had to do but do it as slowly as possible. I think he sent her the initial interrogatory this week. He knows I want as much time as possible but I also don't want to be stupid about it (need to protect myself and kids so letting him do his job).


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