I'm back lol (in my best Jack Nicholson voice), I stayed at a hotel that had internet issues all week.
I found the book happiness trap and have started reading it so far I like the book.
My wife is still not talking at all to me. She is communicating thru my daughter to me. She came over this evening to drop off some items and would not look at or talk to me. She spoke only to my D and son. This is difficult to deal with, maybe it's time I move on with my life. When I feel detached something comes along like tonight and brings me back down. The good part is this pity party was short lived, I'm feeling better already. I guess detachment comes in incremental steps.
You can not change your past, but you can ruin a perfectly good present by worrying about the future.