How to make it work again?

[scaredsilly]

Thanks, CV. I agree with you. I go on steptalk.org a lot, too. Unfortunately, It's very common to find fathers enamored with their daughters, to a pathological level. Some fathers don't want them to grow up.

The way I see it, if they're having sex (as my SD23 is since her BF spends the night), they're not little girls anymore and don't get my financial support.

I think my H would feel the same way I do if the shoe were on the other foot and I were asking him to financially support my 23 year old son who had his own financial means.

It's sad it had to come to this.