BD - how are you doing? Your sitch has been on my mind a lot lately.
Thanks buddy....I'm doing pretty good. I talked to the court admin and talked to my SIL (who's in law school) and decided that I'm going to ask for a continuance of 6 months so that we can sell the house. I do not want to be in a position where we have to go ask for a continuance every 30 days and W can cause headaches any given month if she's irritated about something.
I set up some DB coaching for Monday afternoon so whatever happens, I'm sure that pep talk will help.
W continues to act like everything's great....we hang out, we ML, we plan things together, etc. So I guess on one hand, things are pretty great. Honestly, if we didn't have the court date, I'd be chugging right along in happy limbo still.
On the negative side, W is still regularly talking to OM. I saw that he was texting her last night and this morning I saw that she had deleted it. I actually mentioned it and she lied about it, and when I called her out, she said "I didn't say I didn't talk to him, I said I didn't remember." I shouldn't have even mentioned it, so I dropped it right there.
I'm still a bit on the fence with do I keep doing what I'm doing, or do I draw a line in the sand with regards to her committing to the M and stopping contact with OM. I guess short term I'm thinking "do what I'm doing" until house sells and then draw the line before we move.
Outside of that, I'm itching for some more GAL. I got all my new equipment for the next 90 day workout and I'm stoked about that, but I really want to do something out of the house.
