"I was getting a lot of feedback on this board telling me that MC had the potential to drag MLC out longer. "
No it's the person that drags it out not the counseling. For some, MC shows them that maybe it's not the M but themselves that are the problem.
Your W needs to go to IC to get her head on straight.
" But they didn't land me here... people fix those sorts of problems all the time"
To a certain degree they did. Yes people fix these issues all the time, but everyone is different. Your W has chosen not to. The point is you to see the person behind the craziness.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.