Next dilemma - MC said that she agrees that I might be able to wait it out, but says she wouldn't usually advise that and thinks it would be unhealthy for me to not see OW during that time...

Will be curious what my individual therapist says about that in an hour. My guess is she will say the same thing. So - to date or not to date. I still am just dumbfounded to find myself asking this question.
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"In the midst of winter,
I found there was, within me,
an invincible summer."
-- Albert Camus

Me:39 WAW:38
M:9 T:19, No Kids
EA/PA with co-worker:9/24, ILYBINILWY, S:9/25
EA/PA on hold? (probably not), MC 9/30-now