Rachael, Dr. Dobson's "Love Must Be Tough" is for the normal spouses that are having affairs, I haven't seen too many MLCers wake up and return to their senses when they are forced to make decisions. They generally take the easiest way out, which is to run away and/or move out.
I don't want to discourage you, but thought you should be aware of what might happen.
Take care.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
