Grey, you have no idea how much of a gift that admission and MC really was. It'll save you YEARS of anger and pain. I can attest to that.
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So, two months of weekly agony for nothing.
The therapist kind of called her on it and she admitted that she has been in the affair the whole time, is "in love" (vomit), and never had any inclination to work on our marriage. Basically, she's been using it as a way to beat up on our marriage to try and avoid taking responsibility for her actions. I could take those 24 hours of therapist sessions and boil them down to her trying to make herself feel better about this whole thing.
It's not fair, but it is knowing. Many wish they did know. I think you see now why it really doesn't matter if you know or not.
But thanks for posting. I can honestly say it helps. It at least helps me and I'm no newbie
Be at peace, Brother. It's not something you could have predicted or done anything about. A month may be too short of time, but I think it's a good idea to get that space.
Peace, AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
