"I can't believe how stressful and the mind games this whole situation is."
You have to STOP portraying his actions as mind games. They are very real to him and he can't see a way out of it.
"H keeps telling me how he wants this work but shows me little on how it will work."
Because he doesn't know HOW. But you can guide him to the right direction.
"For example he has been out the last 2 night at work late then out having drinks and also plans on going out tomorrow again."
Have you ever thought of joining him?
"How are we suppose to get anywhere when we never spend time together?"
Right now that's his way of dealing with things. You can slowly entice him back. Maybe have a drink with him at home when he's not going out, then see where it goes from there. He needs to feel comfortable enough to be who he wants to be.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
