Ever since our conversation on SUN, H has had trouble sleeping (on the couch since 10/28/12) and had an upset stomach.

GUILT? Heavy thinking?

WOndering what simple signs people have seen to see if 180s are working. Since we live together, w/S, it is difficult to have no contact, but I have greatly pulled away this week.

1. continuing to hit the gym
2. not asking about his day..unless he asks me
3. Not asking about his work schedule
4. Going to church
5. Smiling, humming, being positive
6. letting him say "goodnight' first
7. plans to go out with friends this weekend
8. Not asking about us
9. NO CRYING SINCE SUN!!