I'm sure you'll have more times of peace, as well as tough times too, unfortunately. But the good times get better and longer with time. I'm so glad you have family that cares that is supporting you.
H wants me to go back to work for the money. His income just barely covers expenses, not really, not for anything unexpected. I used to work full-time and made significantly more than him. My job has been work-from-home for the last 14 years, but it's winding down so I'm not contributing much now. He didn't hesitate to spend "our" money the years I was pulling it in, so I'm sure he's missing it.
