Become the man you want to be.

Is what she said true? Work on those things if so.

You're doing things in hopes that your W will notice. Do things because you need to grow as a person, to become a better man, a better father.

You're W may notice, she may not but you'll be a better person no matter what.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss