Last night we were talking finances because I moved all my direct deposits to a new account. And she says, glad you are finally taking an interest in all this after 8 F'ing years! All you had to worry about was mowing the grass and taking out the garbage! You're a grown a** man step the F' up. I look at this as she is slowly telling me how she feels, which is a huge step up from hiding it. But how can I use this to a positive if she has been holding all this in, and it's gotten to a point where our marriage is scorched?
