Oh, I did initiate one topic with H this morning, and that was about S12's schooling for next year. H wants to send S12 to a nearby school with an intense focus on personal responsibility. It has a 4-day week, meaning S12 would be off on Friday to self-study and catch up on homework and projects. He also talks about me getting a job outside of the house -- now. So I asked him what his plan was, if I get different job, for S12 on Fridays. His response, "I don't know."
So this frustrates the cr@p out of me. He has expressed his desire/expectation for both. He has not thought about it beyond that. Normally, I would have expressed my frustration and confronted him about making a plan, laying out all the issues to get an answer from him, etc. I didn't, I just said, "Oh, okay."
This *really* doesn't work for me. I would rather be single if I'm going to have to parent alone anyway. Then I don't have to try to factor in his preferences.
