As I posted before, I have already told her sister. I moved back in yesterday and my W is not happy about it. I am not doing any of this to be vindictive, I want my W to get help. She just admitted that she has been depressed for a long time and didn't feel she could come to me. I said all of this may have been resolved by talking to me a long time ago. I think we were over before I ever told her sister. Even if that's the case she needs help and if this speeds up her getting help then that's what I want. Whether we can resolve our issues and start over is yet to been seen, but she needs help. But now I am a dick for moving back in to my own home. I told her that if I wasn't allowed to stay at my house and sleep in my bed no one else was either! I have proof that some guy spent the night last weekend. She is still lying to me so that's a big problem. I am sticking by my guns of I'm not leaving, she is the one that wants out. She can be the one to leave. When I said this she then blames me for being a d#*k and making a power play, and that I'm going to ruin our family by not sticking to *our* plan. This plan was hers and what she wants.
