Why did you start the sentence with "But again"....as if to say she didn't want sex, AGAIN...
of course she didn't. She just buried her mother and you are staring at her with your "needs" and the ONLY WAY she can show you she cares is sex??
You won't admit it but it sure looks that way. She told you important grateful things AND shared her emotions too....but it's not enough for you?
Originally Posted By: banjopicker
Yes, this was some of that verbal intimacy I've said has been missing. "But again" was drawing a parallel to the night before when she opened up briefly. "Slept well" was also a too cryptic way of saying I was greatly pleased by this bit of intimate conversation that she initiated (Remember, I'm not supposed to be prodding her).
I appreciate you challenging the clarity of my writing, but you're injecting some things in my sitch that aren't there.
Come on 25yearsmlc, cut the poor fella some slack. We're not all heartless sex hounds constantly on the hunt for our next bit of action, especially when we know our wives are experiencing very raw and extreme grief.
If that were the case we would all be spending $150 down at the local brothel rather than buying coaching sessions with DivorceBusting so we can learn to be better husbands.
Me: 46 W: 46 T: 23 M: 20 DS12 DD11 DS5
W left: 01/28/08 Discovered OM: 02/26/08 W back for 9 days: 04/08 W returned 05/21/08 EA/PA - 01/08-07/09 W's MLC 2008-2014 (realised this much later)
