25 I really appreciate your words of wisdom, encouragement, and overall positive attitude. I'm planning on attending EE. I have one logistic to cover with work and believe it or not I'm building the courage to tell my W. sounds lame but I am ACOA and even the mere fact that I started treatment and recovery is hard to swallow.
I went out to eat with my W for the first time since July 17th, we are getting along great. She has no desire to ML but I told her I understand and I'm ok with it. We have come up with a weekly cooking schedule for dinners. I get mon/wed/sun. This seems simple but it's huge for us. She does not like schedules and I need them or I die. We compromised.
Next week I have ACOA and dinner with friends . My w has seemed to stop texting OM and even tells me when male friends txt her.
She also opened up to me about her health. She NEVER does this. I did not fix her just told her that it must be frustrating . She actually told me she was ovulating and she knows that is causing the pain. I just stated I am here for you. This is huge . She is tracking her body not ME.
What did I do ? Nothing. Not react? Left phone open? No clue like she snapped out of it or ended ea.
I will continue to work on me and not let her positive changes let me slide back to old ways. EE is on my radar . I payed the fee. Have avail flights. My plan is this weekend or mon to talk with w.
