Rachael, Definitely set up an appointment and meet w/a lawyer to see what your options will be. If the loans are in his name, he may end up having to pay them himself. The same would apply to the new auto.
I'm glad you are working and meeting new people. You need a change of scenery and when you are working, your focus is on work and not your h.
Please don't put off seeing a lawyer, i.e., knowledge is power.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
