My W and I went back and forth on this. We are a little different than you it seems, in that we both want each other to spend equal amounts of time with our D. Oringally, we had her revolving every couple days. We have recently switched to one week on one week off, with a single afternoon visit to break it up. Personally, I think your H should have them at LEAST one night a week...more would be better. That gives him a view of being a single parent, lets you GAL and leaves a little mystery (for him) regarding what you might be up to
