KD, yes I am giving up on my H, giving up on my M. H's continual lying and actions since he left have helped me make up my mind.
I do blame H in the way that, he didn't try IMO. He gave in, he left. Yes I played a part in the demise of my marriage. I acknowledge and accept that. Ultimately, it was his decision. He choose not not accept my attempts at communication. He choose to keep me in the dark and then leave.
A spade is a spade. He left me, he ended our marriage. Yes, I could choose to live in limbo for the next however many years.
So me saying that, means I now have four fingers pointing at me?
M: 29, H: 31 D: 9 S: 8 T: 13 Y M: 9 Y ILYBIDKIILWY 12/09/2012 ~~~~ Worrying does not empty tomorrow of its troubles. ~~~ it Emptys today of its strengths
KD, I've already asked nicely. Please step down. You are disrupting the harmony of this thread. If I have to ask again, I will seek the assistance of a moderator.
No one is pointing anything at you, I promise. I don't feel you are justifying, I think you are talking things out. And you need to do that. And I hope you continue to do that. You have clearly acknowledged plenty of "fault" in your own situation as do I. But for me, it is helpful to hear your story as it has been to hear CV's (and plenty of people on the other boards for that matter).
I actually found KD,s posts very interesting, minus the bluntness/ rudeness. I actually thought his post was directed at me, although I could be wrong.
M: 29, H: 31 D: 9 S: 8 T: 13 Y M: 9 Y ILYBIDKIILWY 12/09/2012 ~~~~ Worrying does not empty tomorrow of its troubles. ~~~ it Emptys today of its strengths
