Hey Andrew...love your post!! Love your goals, I've always liked D lol!!

H wants to be friends and I know that we are amazing friends together. We have agreed we keep our agreements private, but also sign an agreement to file away in case the "old" one of us ever return. While the physical attraction between us could spark forest fires, H is not built to cheat or be sleeping with more than one woman, so here I am hanging in...that was all to say that if he wants friends, I am willing to go there. I continue to GAL, 180, enjoy my life and there is a chance that when OW is gone, I may not want H, or maybe with someone else. I feel these possibilities are all that. In my case, friends works well. I like Jodi's advice. If you can do the friend thing without expectation, go for it!