Good for you Regret...don't bite. Lol, maybe you could give him beard trimmings back, like in his bed...:)

Seriously, I think you are amazing and can't imagine how difficult your sitch must be on daily basis. As to him living in the rental, he is probably quite aware of the implications on finances. I like to advice of whatever, but I will prtoect the kids and myself. Obviously paraphrasing, but it is solid