LIS, I don't think you have anything to feel guilty about. It sounds like you have openly and actively tried. I can see now probably twice where my H may have tried but he was unclear and came in attacking. I tried and tried to talk to him but he just didn't want to hear it. He expected me to be a mind reader. He thought our problems could be solved by pushing them under the rug.
Had he openly and clearly tried to save our marriage, well I think I would feel a whole lot different about it. I doubt we would even be here now.
You and CV have clearly voiced your concerns and shown just how much it affects you. There comes a time where you have to do what you have to do.
I have much more respect for the WAS who actively and clearly tries to fix their marriage instead of just running.
M: 29, H: 31 D: 9 S: 8 T: 13 Y M: 9 Y ILYBIDKIILWY 12/09/2012 ~~~~ Worrying does not empty tomorrow of its troubles. ~~~ it Emptys today of its strengths
