And, thank you for the love from CA, Tori! I am doing a little better today!
GALs this weekend--1) Leaving work early to go to my S's living wax museum, 2) meeting an old GF for drinks after that, 3) Taking all kids to sibling/adult pinewood derby, 4) Sat- S9's pinewood derby & basketball game, 5) S11 is having a friend sleepover (so I will be the hostest w the mostest), 6) Sunday- church....that's about it.
H coaches youngest two sons in basketball. He's a good coach & despite his recent poor decisions I'm glad he's continuing to make an effort to be part of their lives.
When I showed up to pick up S9 I saw him texting/emailing...OW, no doubt, as he doesn't have many/any other people he texts/emails. So sad that during a bball practice he has to take time to do this. So sad to have witnessed this. Tried not to let it get me down.
Talked to FIL this evening...he is going thru his own stuff w trying to find life w/o his wife, so in some ways we can relate to one another. He doesn't understand at all why my H/his son is doing what he's doing. I know I'm not suppose to be talking to family about our sitch but I NEED to. I want support. I really don't think anything we talk about is going to bite me, as I don't say bad things, just truthful happenings. Sorry if that's not DBing, but I feel comfortable w who I talk to/dont' talk to.
GALs??? What are you all doing??? Need new ideas!!
M- 18 T-21 S-14,11 & 10 BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA) H moved out 11-3-2012 10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life. 11-25-13 Jointly filed.
