Hi FM,

Why do you feel that she doesn't? I agree that there are other solutions to snoring, but why hasn't her H researched them? I mean it gets to a point of such detachment sometimes that you are afraid of trying for fear that you will be hurt again. If he was distressed about her leaving the bedroom, why not put the CPAP on again or research other options?

I agree that CV wants validation... she deserves her feelings to be validated right now. Right, wrong or indifferent, she needs to share her feelings. Once voiced, then healing and hopefully solutions comes. Isn't that what many WAS's go through. They leave, work through their feelings and either come home (hopefully) or move on.

BTW, been following your situation. I am so sorry for what you are going through. And I'm praying for you.

LIS


Me- 40
H - 43
M - 5
T - 14
Separated 2/5/11