I wish I could give you a real hug. Didn't mean to make you cry. No, your H doesn't sound exactly broken up, though he could just be saying it out of anger. Either way, it's evidence that you're doing the right thing, I think. Are you able to take all your things with you? Do you have to come back? I might be concerned about leaving anything behind that's important to you.
I can't remember right now what I dream about. You know how you can remember it when you first wake up, but then can't remember it 20 minutes later? That's what I do anyway. I just wake up a lot remembering, and think to myself how curious that H wasn't in it, things that he should be part of as a family.
I don't remember H saying much when I first moved into the other bedroom. It didn't come up until an argument some time later. We talked a lot about his snoring before he got his CPAP, but he wasn't doing anything about it. He finally got it after I moved into the other BR, but wasn't wearing it because he didn't care if he snored. My aunt was advising him that it changed her life, because she could finally get a good night's sleep without her own snoring waking her up. I guess it's just not the same for H.
And I would ask for another spatula, and H would promise to get it. And two weeks later, I would remind him and he would promise again. Any more reminding and I would be accused of nagging. In a month I would just go get one myself. Besides, he didn't get it for me in the first place, I did, so he wouldn't even know where to get it.
Didn't mean to make you cry. No, your H doesn't sound exactly broken up, though he could just be saying it out of anger. Either way, it's evidence that you're doing the right thing, I think. Are you able to take all your things with you? Do you have to come back? I might be concerned about leaving anything behind that's important to you.