Thanks. I am just having a bad evening. This job is what I need to be out amongst people. I'm learning to cashier at a large auto firm in the cafeteria and the people are so nice! Its hectic but I will learn and it'll keep my mind off things. Now I need to gather information on finances and consult a lawyer in person instead of byphone to be prepared for what may come maybe that'll help me feel like I have some control.