I keep on keepin on

[25yearsmlc]

when I did some stand up comedy in the middle of my h's MLC, I quoted him a few times. Turns out these are universal comments the MLCer makes.


"Come on baby, we can work this out" = "you can take this crap... AND MORE"

"I would have told you 'X', but I didn't want to hurt you."

= "I'm a HERO, gallantly trying to protect you".

I mean, it's as if they've done a heroic noble thing by lying and they just glance away from the underlying wrong, which they compound by lying more...

I think I once told my h,

"H, let me get this straight.

First you betray me, then you lie about it, you do it again, then lie again,

AND now that you're caught, you say you were 'only trying to PROTECT' me"??

Wow h, if that's not what a hero is, I don't know what is."


yes, It's a little bit insane...In short, Rachel, It's Not you, it's him.