I have to think that she "boosts his ego". This is what he himself told me she does for him. She makes him feel good about himself, makes him feel wanted. She took an interest in one of his hobbies and they also work together. The other thing I think too is our home is hectic - a 5 year old and 2 dogs. Where they live its probably neat and tidy and quiet and he can relax more. Does that make sense? He just sent me an email after he deposited money into my account for the bills. It said "no you didn't get a raise, I put money in your account" which I thought was funny. My instinct is to respond with a funny comment. But I haven't responded at all yet. He is also is coming to "hang out for a bit" tomorrow night.
