Hi Cor74..Had to say Hi because I can relate to what you have said. I am the same..always here catching up with the friends I have made and supporting them in their sitch...but not updating my thread either. I continue to read others threads to keep myself on track. The advice is helpful in day to day interations with H and all my relationships.
I call myself in piecing and have been for just over 4 months. I can relate about the occasional struggles with the R. There has been no R talk for us either. The jury is out on whether that is good or bad. There are some things that I can't let go but I am trying. I just wonder if "THE" talk would help me with that or if I will get over it in time. I remember Susan Page's quote about being right is the booby prize of life...then I work on trying to let it go. I am always battling the depression and anxiety, its a daily struggle. I am determined it won't affect the recovery of my M also and try to remain calm and positive most of the time. Certainly a 180 for me.
We have an additional stressor lately as my H left his job of 27 years (a contributor to our R struggles) and we have been working on a venture together. Overall, we are doing fine, but sometimes it gets too much. We could have done without the extra worry about finances and jobs at this time.
But onward we go, I would still rather be where I am today thanks to DB and the help here, than where I was 5 months ago. I continue to work on myself and be thankful every day.
