Confused by WAS

[Grizz]

Thanks to all of you for the replies. I have been doing more with the kids without her. Going to the movie, playing video games etc. One thing that gets me is she is fine to let me do these things. Meaning she rarely does things with the kids on her own. Don't get me wrong, she is a great mother. This just comes back to her being so stressed ( about work, health, me, kids) that she is just an unhappy person. I just hate to think that the stress from all of this is going to ultimately end our marriage. TO ME, we were fine until all of these things started to snowball into the perfect storm. I just now happen to be the easiest thing of all of these to change. I know I need to continue to look at myself and people typically don't get to this stage without problems from both parties but it really upsets me that outside forces have potentially had such a damning effect on our relationship. Thanks for listening/reading. It helps me to just get some of this off of my chest.