Sexless marriage. H Left. Now retrouvaille in 3wks

[AM2012]

I need help. So my H has been very depressed since this whole situation happened even though he is the one who chose to leave. It's a bit different than other stories I have read on here where once the spouse leaves they are out partying or what not. With my H when he decided to leave he became a hermit. He never once went out stayed home slept, watched TV. He never took off his wedding ring started to become really depressed. I always felt that he never wanted this to happen but felt he has no choice.

When he came to me and said he wants to see if we can work this out he is still depressed. He told me several times that this whole thing is so sad and do depressing. He's having a hard time letting go of the past.

I am having a hard time with him being so depressed about this. Is he depressed because he's given up inside his head? I assume he feels there is no hope at all.