CV, I guess I look at these things differently. Call it whining or whatever you want. People have stuff in them that must come out. Tamping down feelings causes more damage in the long run. Feelings are never wrong. Perhaps perspective needs to change sometimes, but I don't think it does unless we are allowed to flush our feelings. Remember on DB how we are taught that we don't need to agree with our spewing S's but we do need to acknowledge their feelings? I need someone to acknowledge mine and it looks like you need the same thing. Give me time on the other post. I need to read through several more times.
