So sorry to hear about your situation, LittleGTO. Love your nickname by the way. I don't have much to offer, as I am literally just learning this process as well. However, just lately I have been trying everything I can to GAL. Today, I reached out to a friend and made dinner arrangments for tonight. That has been hard to do during this process, but every time I get out and socilaize, it seems to make it easier to do the next time. Personally, I don't think GAL really means you have to "get a new life", It simply means getting out and enjoying things again. I have even went to resturaunts by myself. I have NEVER done that before. It felt weird. It felt uncomfortable, but it got me out from underneath the covers for a bit. The only suggestion I can give you is, just FORCE yourself to get out there and do anything. It's going to be hard. Your heart and mind won't be into it, but it is beneficial for your mental and emotional health.


Me:46 Her:38
My D: 11
Her S: 8