I knew better...but I did it anyway...

[littleGTO]

Oh, SB,

I can soooo relate to your emotions regarding the OW! It hurts like nothing ever before--that H's thru us away & replaced us w a new, improved model. (Well, eventually the issues that brought them to this place this catch up to them. It is highly unlikely their little fairy tale romances will continue forever....but it IS possible. It DOES happen, but not likely.)

I am a similar place of anger & questioning the WHY of it all. A friend told me yesterday that if you continue to aske WHY WHY WHY & never move on to addressing what IS, then you will remain stuck. That's where I am-stuck. I can't let go of the fact that old H is gone & this new stranger has taken his place.

I think you are in the same place. It just IS, SB. Like "lost" said you can't rationalize something irrational--it just can't be done. We will drive ourselves crazy.

Somehow you and I and many others here need to channel our energy to positive outlets. I know I spend way too much time thinking about H & what he's doing and why and where's he at w OW. It drives me crazy!

Hold my hand through this, Sweet! We can do this together!!