"I find my feelings running from sadness, despair and sometimes hope, to now having feelings of resentment toward her."


Those feelings^^^are normal. I would suggest that you don't show them to her. Smile, be happy, strong and confident. She should only see that side of you. And yes a passive/aggressive person can destroy relationships. Work on that and look at yourself and see if you find a controlling side of you.

What are you doing for GAL?


M 53
D 20
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

John Wooden