"I find my feelings running from sadness, despair and sometimes hope, to now having feelings of resentment toward her."
Those feelings^^^are normal. I would suggest that you don't show them to her. Smile, be happy, strong and confident. She should only see that side of you. And yes a passive/aggressive person can destroy relationships. Work on that and look at yourself and see if you find a controlling side of you.
What are you doing for GAL?
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”