not sure where to go from here

[tiredndrained]

Help...as it stands today..H being nice n cordial. Still wont touch me or do anything w me. Will that ever change? Am i being unrealistic to think things will change? We live together but he has told me several times he has no interest in working things out. So why doesnt he go? I knoe he not working but it doesnt seem like he ever plans on going. What should I do?