Yes, definitely RLA. She tried some small talk last night and I just have simple answers and went off to do what I wanted to do and that was play with daughters, cook dinner, tidyn up and read.. I do not initiate contact and staynaway from her. It is hard discipline but getting easier detaching that way. I think the 180/LRT is freaking her out a bit. I wamtaking the higher road and electing to ingore the fabrication of past events, her rewriting history and hyperbole that she spews to me, the kids and friends and family go, I only creates tension and arguing. She can no longer hurt me emotionally as she has tried. Only legally and financial which she is trying but won't win. I think 180/LRT is messing her up. Has been 3 days since her urgency to contact re Agent to drop the price after 9 stays of not even responding to Agent.
M17 yrs. me49 xW47 d15 d11
BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out) Therapy 9 months (tried 2) BD2- May/12(sep) Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50 Sold home - Aug/13 Court #2 - Dec/13 Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again We settled.