So just step back, shut my mouth, move on with my life and see if she ever comes back? I guess that seems like the approach I should have been taking all along.
YES!
I am going to try my best this time to be the best DB I can!
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She went into my master closet and up onto a step ladder. I couldn't help but comment....probably shouldn't have, but I did have to say, "whooa look at your cute little butt".
Risky move there, glad it didn't back fire and ruin the night. You need to think of her, and treat her, like a friend (or better yet an acquaintance).
I said it in a friendly manner, not much differently than I would a friend, maybe not an aqquintance though I guess. I suppose I need to keep it more on a less personal basis.
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I am not sure AT ALL whether this evening was an interaction that is beneficial in any way to my goal, probably not I guess. It was however an enjoyable night.
I wouldn't think about it in terms of how it helped your long term goal because you're setting expectations and trying to read into it. Just enjoy the moment and the enjoyable night it was and try not to think too much more about it. Continue to DB and detach. Don't use this as a reason to contact her and discuss how much fun the night was or anything like that. Thaks for the input.
I was not going to give her a follow up call. I didn't really think about it, but living in the moment was a good point. I did enjoy the time and I will simply take it for that.
