My ex tried to tell me, the day we went to court, that it wasnt going to work with ow because....blah blah blah.
Your h is using you to be his "best friend" You havent gotten angry and are listening, so he is feeling safe. He also is MAKING SURE you get some pampering, so you continue to stay where you are.
SOme might think being his friend is ok. but I think if he isnt scared he is gonna lose you, and you keep up your routine, he will continue to see other woman.....AND maybe they get things moving further along. I think NOW is the time to say...."alright, if this is what you want.....than have at it". I say NOW because things arent so great with him and her. and he seems confused.
Go away together, do something fun that you havent done in awhile. He is depressed and bored. Dress up and have WILD....you know what i mean. lol ANYTHING to shake things up!
