Yea, I need to set boundaries. I went to our local library today, they didn't have a copy there, but I requested one from another library. I hope it arrives soon.
Today, he was off work. We spent the morning in separate parts of the house. Then I went to the library alone. When I came back, he became attached to me. We watched a movie, went to lunch and watched another movie. Apparently, OW claimed I was sending her anonymous emails which she forwarded to H throughout the day (no). He showed them to me and every time I picked up my phone, he was watching over my shoulder or asking if I was sending an email. I felt like he spent the day with me to keep an eye on me for her. It was nice to spend time with him, but it didn't feel right due to his constant questioning.
I thought it was crazy that even though he spent practically the whole day glued to my side, he still asked me if I was the one sending her emails. I feel like she was doing it to keep tabs on him and to try to stir up conflict between H and me. His fog is so thick he doesn't realize how ridiculous her claims were. On the plus side, thanks to her, H and I spent the day hanging out, which for the most part was nice.
He's still sleeping in D's room. Tomorrow is his B-day. D stayed up late baking her dad a cake, while he "went to sleep" early.
The 180 has been hard. As I said, for us, he was usually the initiator of conversation but I was usually the one who filled it. Now, I'm initiating more and I think he likes the extra attention. I've also kept my side of the conversation short, making him talk more. He kept commenting that I'm being weird.
Aside from OW's messages to H & H's questioning, today was one of the better days we've had. He did make several mentions of "being free" and needing to find his own place to move to.
