Same Old Wagon Wheel Part 7

[25yearsmlc]

Thx UF. Not sure I can attend EE in Feb, I might have to wait til May because of work schedule. Which is a big bummer but i think this 12 step program will be very good for me in the mean time.

1) go to EE in February. Aside from plans I made based on YOUR choices, it's ridiculous to see this pattern take control over you again.

you are AGAIN paralyzing yourself and trying to stop any change b/c you think-

somehow,

that where you are now is better than making progress b/c after all, she's still at home. You think if you gain clarity and peace, THEN she'll leave you????

I am shaking my head that you of all people would let your fears take over again.

GO TO EE and stop freaking out.

I said "trust the process" and I've gone and my marriage wasn't even in crisis at the time. But like you - I'm a child of an alcoholic and EE was like 3 years of therapy in one long weekend.

GO TO EE...

seriously...stop the inertia of your life b/c it's how you slid into being
where you are.