trying to get her back

[edward113]

She came today to take her things from the house. She only took what I had may easily available. Now I have to clear her things from the house. I do not feel comfort throw away or giving away her life. Wh

[MrBond]

I agree you don't seem to be listening to anyone which is why you're sinking fast. Bottom line is do you want to save your M or not?

[edward113]

Now I am not sure. I could have may it any easier for her. All she had to do waz just take her things. Now I am responsible for throwing her life away I do not feel right doing that. She might want her college diploma, photos from her childhood because I knl w she doesn't have many of them. I will leave her alone. I will not ask for the money she owns me for her half of the mortgage which she has failed to supply. She is not a nice person to me.

[MrBond]

Her feelings aren't your problem any more. Put her things in boxes and leave them out front to pick up. She'll get mad, but lets face it, she'll get mad no matter what you do.

DON"T compromise on the money issue. Get the money owed for the mortgage back but let a L take care of it. Keep things strictly business.

[edward113]

Guess you are right I have giving her numerous chances. Nowshe wants me to sell my car because her name is on the loan. She signed it over to me not realizing that you cannot just take a name off a loan. Now the car is mine her name is no longer on the title and she is letting me what to do. I don't think so. I am cosigned on her student loans I cannot get off those. Why is it always what is important to her.she couldn't care about me.

[MrBond]

Exactly. Don't keep letting her run the show.

[edward113]

So she said so was going to take me off her loans, I told her good luck. I don't understand if she feels the need to be separated why hasn't she filed the divorce. If she feels what she has done is right why could she look me in the face. I feel if she know she made the right ddecision she would be able to do that.

[edward113]

Sad today. Thinking of all the things that people have told me, " I need to do what makes me happy" and I think I was doing what made me happy, she destroyed that all because of some trited excuse. Another sad part is the seven year inch is one of her favor movies. I just feel so used, I stood by and waited her to figure out what she wanted financial supporting her and then she runs away and poops on me. That is how I feel. Used....

[MrBond]

You really need to shake off that feeling. It's the reason why you're in the exact same place you were since you got here.

[edward113]

I know....