My heart goes out to you litteGTO. Obviously I'm upset about my own situation, but so many on the forums like you have a much more difficult situation...I can't even fathom. You should be proud that you are as collected as you are...and with three kids no less!
And I'd say any opportunity you take to go out with friends is GALing. Keep it up. God willing your husband will get a lightning strike in the a$$ soon.
M: 28 W: 29 D5 T: 7 M: 6 EA + ILYBNILWY: 11/2012 W leaves: 01/04/2013