Well, I made it through. The evening was actually nice. We had decent conversation. I didn't pry for anything, but my W actually opened up and told me most of what she has been up to. She asked a little about what I have been up to. I only offered up what she was asking about and didn't get too involved. I kept it very up beat and light. I put a lot of focus on my daughter, which isn't really a 180 for me, but maybe I was more loving and calm with her than I usually am. Daughter was showing definite signs of not liking our situation, very needy, acting out a little, pouty. On a final note, my wife wanted to borrow some blu Rays for a sleepover my daugther is having tomorrow. She went into my master closet and up onto a step ladder. I couldn't help but comment....probably shouldn't have, but I did have to say, "whooa look at your cute little butt". She has lost a lot of weight and looks fantastic. I don't think my comment was too bad. She seemed to appreciate it and we joked a little about her having a rear end smaller than our D, which it is not....is cute tho....haha

Anyway, I am not sure AT ALL wether this evening was an interaction that is beneficial in any way to my goal, probably not I guess. It was however an enjoyable night. I liked spending a little time as a family, even if it was for only a short while. Open to any comments....


Me:46 Her:38
My D: 11
Her S: 8