And, might I add...why aren't you angry at her? Anger is not a "bad" emotion and can actually help heal. After my husband walked out after 20 years, it took almost two years for me to get REALLY angry and then I was able to move through that stage of grief.
Me 55 H 49 Married 21 years No kids bomb 5/09 filed 7/09 divorced and moving forward 5/10