Update: He has once again made the trip to visit the OW. He left this morning. He sent me a text just before the flight took off telling me that he loved me and already missed me. WTF???? I don't get this at all. He is not following the typical MLC "rules". LOL! I don't know how to deal with him. He claims that our marriage isn't over that he just needs to "take this journey". It's a painful journey for him, I know that for sure. He is restless, can't sleep and eats very little. He's aged 5 years over the past 6 months. Still showing him the happy, fun, positive ME whenever possible. I listen to the alien talk, agree with him the best I can when he shares his feelings and encourage him to make decisions without my opinion. What more can I do?
Me:57H:62 M:34T:35 2S,2D (grown nlah) BD:09/2012 visits M ow EA/PA?:10/2012 H moves out 06/2013
"Do not let the behavior of others destroy your inner peace." -Dalai Lama
