Do you have any way to meet with his co-worker or work/younger friends, like going for a drink with them when he goes? My point here is to move this kind of relationship into an open, so it stops being mysterious and exciting to some degree. Something I learnt from reading multiple relationship books for past 6 months. In long term marriages, the attraction slowly weakens, everyday life gets in the way… This affect the sex drive big time... Why do you think WAS say these words “I love you, but I’m not in love with you”? They think you are familiar and predictable and not exciting anymore. Luckily, you are not in this situation, so you still have to time to do take some steps to have your H attracted you again. Can you think of something that attracted your H to you 23 years ago?
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state
